It's that time of the year again;)everyone going to school and I am lucky:)because now everyone is busy with studies and I get to go to the classes that are actually enjoyable:)and do stuff I always wanted to do. I am trying to start up a technical group for Mohandes. Hopefully this committe becomes active and we can help each other in our feilds of work. I still don't know how many people will show up.
There are two groups of people, First are the ones who if get upset about something won't talk about it and won't tell the person who purposely or without any purpose has hurt them and second are the ones who will talk about it. The fact that talking and communicating can remove misunderstandings, but before that you have to practice to be open to people's critcs.
I don't know where should be your red lines in friendship or any type of relationship be. I mean the more furthur you put it the more you block communication. But how can you become close to the people you like or love but without interfiering in their lives?without giving them the feeling that they need help when they are in trouble or. I think the people who are masters of relationships are the ones who know the art of talking to people in the right way and ofcourse there is no one way to talk to everyone. You have to know how to speak to someone to be effective and help them. Like my geometry teacher in high school in Iran would describe every equation as a food;)and try to celebrate the existance of the equaction with moons and stars around it for the students. Beilieve it or not I still remember all those equations:)
well I guess one good thing from living in Canada for me was to say no to the things I wouldn't want to discuss and think. It actually is a control mechanism. You are in charge of who and what affect your life.